I’m looking for WE. You know, the “WE” that Black journalists, commentators, business people, politicians, and pundits talk about when they are interviewed on television and radio. When they say things like…
- We need to educate our children and take back our communities.
- We need to harness our socioeconomic power and influence corporations.
- We need to support “X” and “Y” legislation.
- We need to step up and be fathers, mothers, mentors, leaders, business people, etc.
Do you know who “We” is?
In my opinion, the homogeneous black WE is a figment of the imagination. We as African-Americans are not of one economic or social strata. We are not all college educated or high school drop outs. We don’t all have the Cosby family dream or come from strong single mother households. It is this reality that is overlooked when people call on the WE.
When you call out to someone who isn’t there…they don’t hear you. Black America is not hearing the call of some of it’s best and brightest leaders because they aren’t calling US collectively. We are not WE…we are YOU. You are the poor sista on welfare who is looked down upon because she needs food stamps to survive. You are the brother who was passed along by “No child left behind” so that the graduation rates would be acceptable. You are the child who is told they can be a great as Martin Luther King, but faces a reality in their neighborhood that says they will be lucky to secure a decent paying job after high school graduation.
When we all see our brothers and sisters as ourselves we gain the perspective that compassion and understanding brings. Advising from a place of understanding brings context, and context makes words relevant. You must take on the challenges, differences, issues and problems and see them on a personal level. Seek to understand, not just provide lip service. Then we can go from You to US. Community. You are then able to speak to the community at large as well as segments of the community in the ways that are most effective. From there we can move the community to action, because as we all know, actions speak louder than words.
I don’t think that many people I hear are talking about US when they say “We need to”. I think they are really saying that “The Talented Tenth” needs to. They may be saying “You people” need to. I think the appeals and advice, no matter how good and well intentioned, is falling on deaf ears. We need action plans and road maps to the future that are formulated to appeal to our diverse community. Black History Month is a great time to consider whether it’s time for talking or time for us to build community and effect change.
Hello, Negro family, I’d love to know your thoughts on this.